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When your child is three or more years old, it’s time to send him/her into kindergarten. After a few weeks of this, your children will refuse to go to kindergarten because their favorite toy is always taken by others. If this is the case, they feel hurt and can even grumble and cry when seeing their mothers.

Experts on child development believe that the above case is very common because children of this age are not able to contact or communicate with other kids, so they use their own method to obtain their favorite toys. That is, they take other children’s toy. In addition, due to strong acquisitiveness in this age range, it is common for children to get their favorite toys from the hands of other kids. This is a problem that many parents and children can’t deal with. They can learn and have a conversation with other people. In such situations, it is important that parents do not interfere with the conflict. Otherwise, they are depriving their children of a full range of communication opportunities.

Your children will always be angry and cry if you fail them in the toys contest. Mothers, in particular, can also feel the show of pity. It is important for parents to understand that it was not the failure of the children, but their interaction with others. It is obvious that children will know when their needs aren’t met. How to get their wants? Communication skills should be improved and you should always strive to make others feel comfortable. If your child is crying, parents who are wise will tell them to ask their children: What do you do if another child grabs your favorite toy? It is the attitude towards seeking help, if you speak to teachers. It is also the self-protective approach, if holding toys tightly. It is important to tell the children that all solutions represent an attitude toward life. This means they need to choose themselves. This is the only effective way to change their psychological state.

It is important that parents do not react too harshly to their child’s tease in kindergarten. Instead, they should give the appropriate guidance.